Users of social media have fawned over photographs of a Nigerian mother holding twins and a quadruplet, praying for such coveted gifts. In the photo, the mother, identified as Chindinma Offor, celebrates the first birthday of the quadruplets while cradling her first children, twins, a boy and a girl.
In addition to sharing her remarkable voyage with the quadruplets prior to and after birth, the proud mother, who had previously welcomed twins, thanked God and her family for their support as she raised her children.
You can read her entire account and witness beautiful images below.
“This has been one difficult journey.When I had my first set of twins, Koby and Kaira, I thought I had experienced everything.Hell NO! Not until i had d Quadruplet. During my pregnancy with them, I had problems with my servants (chai, these servants know how to transgress at the worst possible moment).I was so irritated that I immediately sent them home. I took care of my home with the assistance of my adoring husband while significantly pregnant (was about 6 months pregnant, but my stomach was as large as a normal 9-month pregnancy).
Yes, I preferred to take care of my property and my first set of twins because it was simpler to have two adults misbehave because they believed you were disabled. I believed that proving them incorrect was necessary. I dusted, mopped, cooked…I could not resist doing these things against the advice of my doctor.My husband Obiajulu Poco Okafor, yes! My beloved hubby…I will marry you again in the afterlife.He bathed Koby and Kaira, fed them, cleaned the house when necessary, joined me in the kitchen when I’m cooking, cleaned the kitchen afterward, asked me to go to bed so he could remain up with Koby and Kaira until they went to bed, and still checks on us every hour.He kneels by my bedside to pray for hours, though he sometimes falls asleep while praying.All of these were completed after enduring the tension of his job.
At some point, False Contractions set in due to tension.The medical staff at LIFE HOSPITAL AWKA will take proper care of me, so my husband instructed me to prepare a few items of clothing.I wept bitterly not because I was afraid, but because I contemplated a great deal…I ponder questions such as: who will care for my children and how will they be fed while my husband is in distant Awka? How will they arrive at school? How will my spouse care for my children and myself at the same time?oh! I wept so intensely.I had no idea that God had everything plotted out beforehand.
We were able to transport the children to my in-laws. Pius Ifeanyichukwu Okafor Maureen Okafor, my mother Chukwu Gold, and my younger sister stayed at dem dia.By the way, I thank God for my in-laws, my daughter Chioma Paul and my mother.They provided appropriate care for my infants.My mother drove them to school, sometimes by herself, and then rushed home to prepare for work.My Swt mum,i adore u.chai! You know the saying, “A woman appreciates her mother more when she has her own children.”Very accurate.They shared care for my infants while we were absent.When Koby and Kaira visited me in the hospital, I was ecstatic because they had gained so much weight.They appeared to be well cared for.But I pondered how my mother and little sister were coping because Koby and Kaira were still waking every three hours to eat at night.To make a lengthy tale short, my sister was able to stop that. How? That’s a tale for another time.
The birth of my quadruplets at 32 weeks marked the beginning of a new journey. These past few months have not been simple.The four of them may resolve to maintain a temperature of 1 degree Celsius (especially after immunization), causing me to sleep no more than 30 minutes per night.I once questioned whether immunization was truly necessary.Dat shit makes dem ill like insane.Everything involving dem has been difficult.They all want equal attention, and they want to be fed at the same time. I had planned to use three different costumes for this photoshoot, but after much pleading, we only used one. Koby n kaira ain’t left out o!
Life has not been simple at all, and the fact that I have a fashion ambition has only made it more difficult.Before I began, I had reservations, wondering if it was possible to attend a real fashion school to learn with the time constraints and everything…There was no leisure time on dia.I chose to study online.YES! I learned to do all of these without attending a fashion school.At night, after everyone has gone to bed, I will slumber for two hours and then rise up to search the Internet for fashion-related information.THE MIND!!! I assure you that the psyche plays a crucial role in achieving success.I’ve been here for n months, growing stronger by the day.I never believed I could accomplish it, but here I am.
Today is our first birthday, so you can see why I’m particularly excited. It signifies the commencement of liberation to some extent.Shebi, you see all these people touching upandan; let me repeat, it’s not simple, o! You will experience frustration at some point, but if you persist, you will be amazed by your level of strength.
Happy birthday to my swt children!”